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people often makes for a less friendly atmosphere, and people are often
suspicious of strangers. Working environments today often don't encourage
social contact, or you may work in a solitary or single sex profession.
You
may have moved from another area of the country, so you have few friends
in the area.
You
like to keep business and social life seperate, quite sensible really
- there's nothing worse than having to continue working with a failed
romance at the next desk.
All
your friends and colleagues are married or attached, so there is no
'natural' introduction to a new partner though them.
You
are recently divorced, widowed or have come out of a long relationship,
so find being single again a bit bewildering.
The
list could go on and on.....
The
point is that
there are many reasons why ordinary people
may need some help in finding a partner.